Society ... and men

Alslam and peace to all ...

The last time i wrote was about women, and i know that whoever read that post will label me as a "sexist" and discriminative against the female sex ... well it isnt like that .. if you read thoroughly you will find find that im talking about facts ... at least from a point of view. ..

anyway .. i have waited for a long and not written this one .. so it will be neighboring that topic ...

let the show begin ...

Men Oh! Men ... i have always looked at ourselves as a sex-oriented creatures .. yah .. borrowed from the object-oriented concept in computer science ... once a friend of mine , considered a secular person , gave me a hint .. he said: as long as we are sex-oriented, we will never advance nor succeed ... and yah true he was ... after long thinking , i found out this was our major problem as men that will put us into so much trouble ... some of us will see any object from his own sexual point of view ... like innocent apples, bananas , flower vases .... they all represent sexual objects .. and this will be "inherited" as well to cover women ... and our view towards women as sex-objects ...

This a big problem that i use to have ... there are many causes for it .. and the number one cause is the way we are raised ... some of the fathers will have this feeling towards women ... at least since im coming from an eastern culture .. so i can say this .. some fathers will raise their kids as if the daughter was something else ... and not a normal human .. from here come the confusion ...
even our societies response to a divorced and working women as "not clean" ... what the hell !!!

I mean lets look at it from this side ... what does a women who was raped has to do with the crime??? we still have some people who will blame a raped women for being raped ... and those are men ... and then there is the type (im from this type and trying to change) ... that will be blaming them for whatever happens ...

true we are need to change as men ... and our look towards the other sex must change ...

the problem worsened when people mixed culture with religion .. some cultures will "hold the women from the throat" and wait for her to do a mistake ... we'll in Islam we always had women talking , and expressing their problems ... but when we mix culture and label it as Islam ... just to satisfy our grandfathers desires .. we only tarnish the good, flexible and peaceful way of Islam itself ...

but there is still that infinite loop ... one friend once said ... "repair" the men .. the women will automatically be "repaired" ... hope this become true .. and according to stats it is true ..


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