Cooling down ..

Peace to all (salam) ...

It has been a busy day at work today .. had to revise and re-do a whole module , the most important module in a system which is the management module Not an easy task when you have to go and read back all those SRS papers and listen to a lecture from the director

so a fast day .. i dint even notice it was Thursday ... till they said tomorrow was Friday ..

what the Heck?? Friday ..when did we had Wednesday ???anyway .. a clumsy beginning for a day since morning ... woke up late

but thank god reached office in time , forgot my USB-device at home and later found out there were mistakes in the

Document we suppose to present , and thats why we got the lecture ... from the director ...

anyway ..

on the other hand , i learned how to manage anger during this part of life ... a success to some extent ...

so a thought was ?? do you wanna get kicked out from this company or what ??? once anger is there , evil will prevail .. as our grandfather yoda says ...

and this was achieved through following some theory ...

whatever happens was there to happen , its only you who decide the consequences .. i read this from some article ..

it worked and now life is happier than before .. so how to achieve this ?? lets take the example from the article read ..

lets say your brother spill coffee on your newly bought shirt , and you're going to work ... so there is a possibility that you will burst (into flames) .. blow up ... throw the cup on his face , get him injured , take him to the hospital , pay the price $$$ and get yourself into trouble with the boss of the company you work at , and your bro face will only recover in the next few weeks ...

DISASTER ... isn't it?

On the other hand , you can just cool-down, change the shirt and get your a** out to work , being late for 5 min or so and probably your boss wouldn't notice it ... still don't forget to tell your Bro to be careful next time ..

how about that simple example ??? .. so YOU decided how your day should go ... and the situation will treat you as you treat it

and this theory has worked to me now and for the many times recently when i nearly screwed my day ...

guess thats it for now ...

peace (salam)

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